“Experience is what you get when you don’t get what you want.” the Farmer.
Many times over many years our family has heard the Farmer repeat this statement. And today it was said again.
This spring the Farmer started planning and planting the garden. He started seeds in little pots. He planted many plants on his hands and knees. He put in the drip system lines, so vegetables would be watered and not weeds.

This spring the Farmer was diagnosed with aggressive prostate cancer, stage 3, 8-9 out of 10 on the Gleason scale. ” The doctor says I have this thing wrong with me but I don’t feel anything” said the Farmer. The Farmer under went a biopsy, CT scans and a MRI. He took oral hormones as a first step in treatment. He received a hormone shot as the second step. Calypso beads were inserted in the prostate gland to be able to line up the radiation correctly. A body form was made to insure being very still during radiation.
Yesterday was picking day, the Farmer got up early to start picking while it was still somewhat cool. He had to stop to make a 10:30, Dr’s. appointment. The radiation schedule was set, Monday through Friday at 2:00pm, for 8-9 weeks, starting September 7th.
Yesterday I heard, ” I’m bummed.” quietly and solidly. He didn’t finish picking the garden.
The Farmer has never voiced discouragement. It didn’t matter what happened, good times, happy times, hard times, loss times, pick up and start again times, thankful times…there was always a sureness that we would make it through.
Has the Farmer lost his faith? NO! Does He doubt God’s plan? NO! Is He human? Oh, Yes! Is He grieving, yes. Will He come through this battle with victory and praise, YES! Not just because He is the Farmer, but because He is God’s Farmer!
Today I heard as he smiled, “Well, this wasn’t what I wanted to experience,” as he stepped off the deck , walked back out to the garden to finish the picking.
The Farmer plants flowers for me and I love him.





